Dear Anita,

I am disappointed of my father and sometimes when i rememberscenes of them fighting makes me feel a bit angry. As to the men in my life i think that i have treated some of them not really nice, don’t  know if its anger or because i didn’t consider them good enough. It is clear to me now that his absence has somehow affected the relationship  with the men in my life. Do you think that my fear has something to do with being commited to a man?