Dear Zenity:

Yes, I think you fear being committed to a man, fearing a man betraying you, disappointing you, not being worthy of your trust.

Your relationships have to do not only with what your father did but with what your mother did,  with her fighting with your father in your earshot if not in your visual presence.

It is what your mother told you about her experience with your father that affected you the most. Would you  like to  share what she told you over the years about your father/ about men, in as much detail as you can?

* I will be away from the computer for an hour or so.

anita