Hiya,

It really knocks you off guard doesn’t it, when you think all is done and you’re doing your best to go through your days in survival mode and then they contact you – I know this all too well!

He really could’ve and should’ve refrained, I could be wrong but if he is anything like my ex he used the card as an excuse to open up a line of communication with you. When me and my ex first split and he was adamant there is no going back ever, refused communication etc he did have two moments of weakness where he txt me about a product I put up for sale on his ebay account months ago, he contacted me to tell me it has been sold and he will transfer me the money and then another time to just nonchalantly ask about my ‘mental well-being’.

Both times he used an excuse just to get in touch with myself.

Did you respond?

Hey think of the confidence boost with your new healthy and glowing set of teeth! 🙂

I am okay-ish today. I did indeed go to work and welcoming the distraction as always. My life seems to be in a constant phase of confusion and sadness but I just have to get through this part too! I cant lie when I say that the current situation with my ex is confusing the hell out of me! He is definitely adding to my misery although not intentionally.

I will have to come to some sort of decision sooner rather than later!