Dear nickita:

I would  be concerned  in your place, somewhat distressed. Not for the fantasies alone but for the fact that she called  or calls him after midnight to  discuss her relationship with her husband.

The “alternate paths” wondering on his part, that  is concerning to me, leading me to  think that it is a path that he  is already taking, while  in relationship with you,  somehow, as  in an emotional affair of sorts.

Time  for a conversation with him about a current such alternate path?

anita