Quick question…was thinking of giving her an Xmas gift this year like that 1 year (her favourite gift, our mug we got her), going to try book an appointment at her work soon, then again just before Xmas and give her a gift she will hopefully love but I got no idea because we rarely talk and her phone is mostly used for her work now. So many times I wanna call her and talk but I don’t, even though she says call any time I want. I’ll call her in a week and a few days like I told her. Can’t be clingy, we are “sorta” friends, don’t hang out/talk on phone/text enough to be considered real friends in my eyes, which I am going to try changing and hopefully she does too because I aint getting any younger and need people to hang out with, as you get older people wish they had friendships but many don’t seem to put the effort into it as it’s all about family and career.

Took me 10 minutes staring at the send button asking if she has any open slots lmao. I’m still going to do my normal thing I do every year at my job where I give everyone I work with candy canes, it’s pretty much religion at this point.

Also no I did not ask her, I joked over a year ago saying I will call everyday when she told me I can call anytime I want, then and she said I can if I want and she will call me back if she’s able to. I figure I wont ask her the once a month, once every 3 weeks, once every 2 weeks, once a week thing as she will probably feel awkward, I’ll just say I will call 1 or 2 times a month as she has other things to do. I really should have done this earlier when we started calling eachother, now it seems like she has a ton of friends by looking at her facebook feed, but maybe she does not talk on the phone much and is looking to do that more, who knows I’ll ask her about that.