Shelby,

That does make sense. May I ask what is it you wanted from him in terms of future? Is it living together? Moving away together? Marriage? Children? Etc. And what was his response to those ideas of a future?

So I was unhappy not getting enough from him and he was unhappy constantly feeling like the bad guy and that he was constantly disappointing me. This resonates with me so much! I know this feeling all too well. My ex is the same. It is like he wants the same but in certain aspects he is just unable to give me the ‘more’ that I am asking for!

I suppose your family and friends always want what’s best for you yes but nonetheless I do think they’ll be rather bitter if we did reconcile as they witnessed me go through one of the toughest moments in my life. They cried with me through it all so I believe they’ll think i’m a fool for even considering it! Of course, no one knows the relationship like the two people in it so many wont understand why the need for reconciliation. Anyway, nothing is set in stone as I have not yet made any decisions – it is just nice to get an insight.

How are you feeling this morning?