Dear Julissa:

I still  have a person inside me arguing, raining on my parade of living, having commentary on what I am doing wrong. That free spirited person within me, this  person suffered a whole lot of arguing against her. The arguing person is  known as  the inner critic. I call it the  inner bully, in my case  it is. The inner bully I know is a mental representative  of my  mother who argued against me a whole  lot, telling  me  how I was wrong.. when I was  not.

Is this true in your case as well, the person within you arguing being the  mental rep of a person or persons  in your life as a child?

anita