Dear  Lily:

I used to feel weird, thought others thought of me as weird because I wasn’t  clear myself about what I wanted and did not communicated clearly to others, that was the nature  of my felt -weirdness. This is why I asked you about what you were trying to communicate to him.

If your felt-weirdness is anything like mine, I would suggest clarity- before communicating ask yourself what it is that you want, what it  is you are trying to and then communicate it very clearly, and ask him any questions you need to ask about what he wants from you, so that you are clear about his intent and motivation. This way you can see  if there is a fit of intent and motivation and  take it from there.

anita