anita,

Although I have been struggling to forgive what she did, we are both struggling to let go.

I did go to speak to her that night and once more since. At some points, I completely forgot about why the relationship ended and things felt normal. We did talk about the situation, then we laughed together like we always had done.

We never drifted prior to the break-up. It feels like it’s ended suddenly for no good reason, even though I know it has.

While I have come to realise that a serious relationship with her is unlikely to happen again for reasons other than what she did (She wants children in the future and I don’t and we both now have potential career paths that will mean being far away from each other) I am not ready to be without her.