Dear Ben:

Living in an English speaking country, Australia, US, Canada, etc., has the  advantage of not having to learn a new language, if you don’t have the  passion of learning a new language. That is likely to make  better  employment possible as well as therapy  (you need therapy in your language, notice the difficulties in understanding your Brazilian guy’s recent communication in English!). So yes, go where you can make money, better money, best you can and take it from there.

Regarding the guy, really it was a dream, wasn’t  it, a nice dream but a dream…?

You want Love in reality, to get to that, you have to see where it is not, it is not in fantasy. Fantasy feels nice at times, better than reality! But it  doesn’t last, that excellent feeling because reality does not accommodate fantasy.

Better stick to reality, no matter where you live and what you do, pay attention to what is real.

anita