Hi Anita,

I do not want to be anyone’s second choice. I see what you are saying but do you think perhaps I might be harping on it more than I should? He’s been in multiple relationships since college and after while being her friend — would a guy really hold out for someone while dating seriously?

what about other factors of the relationship? How do you suggest I pause the relationship? Don’t respond to his texts out of the blue?

Is there a way we can chat directly perhaps?

Thank you very much