Dear Madeline:

Maybe I can speculate regarding your questions if I know more. You wrote in your original post that you and her were best friends, attached at the hip, lived together, and  then, “around July 2017. We almost moved out into a space together but I thought that would   be a bad idea, so  I stayed in the house and  she moved out to live with some friends  of hers. We went through a phase of not talking  because I kind of freaked out”-

if you would like to share: why didn’t you move out with her into a place together, why did you think it was a bad idea, was she angry with you for not moving  in with her to a new place  and that was the reason the two  of you didn’t talk for a while? And what was that freaking out about?

I will be back to the computer in about sixteen hours and  if you reply I will be glad  to  post to you again when I am back. I will next read what seems  to  be a new thread that  you started

anita