Dear VLC90:

To suggest anything possibly useful to you I need more information:

1. “When  I feel uncomfortable or nervous about our relationship, he is really  good at being logical and calming me down”- what does he say to you that is logical and calms you down?

2. “He also accepts  who I am and  understands me more than I have experienced before”- what does he  say and do that communicates to you that he accepts and understands you so well?

3. “Prior to our breakup, any mention of these  things was a very negative experience”- what things and what was the negative experiences like?

anita