Dear VLC90:

It  is  difficult to see a person  you care for  being  in pain. I do  hope he feels better soon. But you getting back with him because he is in pain is not the answer when that means that  the result  will be  the two of you ending up in pain.

Sinking into someone else’s  pain is a no win situation.

With the  new guy, you haven’t  had pain yet, correct? I vote for being with  him  over  getting back together with the  ex.

(He told you he changed or will change… if it was  only that easy or fast).

anita