Dear Tristan:

Well, she lies, doesn’t keep her word, is deceitful, these  are  not acceptable imperfections in a context of relationships, these are deal breakers where trust  is expected. Doesn’t this  mean Issue Closed, for you?

I mean, there is no amount of weed or any drug that will make it possible to have a loving, trusting relationship with a person who lies regularly, promising this  or that and  not keeping her promises, regularly.  What a shame that you had two relationships with women who were/ are not trustworthy.

You put your trust in her at the beginning when you told her about your issues and then in the letter you mentioned  above, as if she was honest. The fact that you had and have issues did not make her lie and deceive, you didn’t create her this  way, you found her this way. This is how she was before you met her. And so, how can you possibly be responsible for the ending of a relationship that had  no chance, not if trust was to be a part of it?

anita