Hi Anita,

Thank you so much for your response. You are right in her manipulation and selfishness – it is who I have learned she is. The first real “control freak” I’ve ever met ha. I have known for a bit of time now that whenever we do part ways from living together, whenever and however that may be, that I no longer want her energy around me. It is too draining and not “my people” at all.

I know there is no argument there as far as who should leave, OBVIOUSLY she should yanno seeing as how this is all her choice. I want to stand my ground in that, ha ha wait why would you think I would be the one leaving?, but part of me does feel like I don’t have the desire to fight it if it came to.

I genuinely feel bad for the girl. She lives in such misery within herself and if we didn’t live together, I would tell her exactly that. But to keep the peace, I exhaust myself and keep my mouth shut.

Again, thank you for your response, I truly appreciate it.