Dear letgo:

You are welcome. You wrote: “But to keep the peace, I exhaust myself and keep my mouth shut”. As far as who is  moving out, there is no war yet, is there?  She stated what  she stated and that is all that happened, correct?

If this is all that happened and you accommodate her manipulation so easily, this is  not a good thing because going  through life accommodating others to avoid any and all conflict will bring you lots of misery. I wonder  if she stated that you will move out because she is used to you doing what  she  wants you to do, so she  didn’t  even bother asking?

anita