Hi Ana,

You are putting all this pressure on yourself to be in this long distance relationship.

And you don’t want to lose him because he’s the only friend you have in your hometown?? Like that’s a factor???

Let me tell you something, I don’t care if you have 100 friends in high school. You could have 50 from your home town in college, 25 in your twenties, 12 in your thirties, etc….. BECAUSE ALL THE KIDS LEAVE THE HOMETOWN. They just. DO!

I would cast him loose and say, “Let’s have a good time WHILE we’re together. Let’s not define it!”

Ironically, once you say that, he won’t get enough of you!

Best,

Inky

• This reply was modified 6 years ago by Inky.