Dear  Nikkole:

I will  soon be away from the computer, but I want  to list the few things I understand and wait for you to let  me know when I am back to the computer if I understand correctly:

1. You feel very  comfortable living  with your father and  in the  town or city where you live.  You don’t want to move away from your father and/or away  from the town.

2. You work part time in the same grocery store where your father and sister work as managers, pursuing a managerial position yourself and tasks away  from serving customers, such as decorating  cakes in the bakery.

3. You have an Associate Degree, and don’t make enough money part time  to finance further education and your father will not finance such for you.

4. Working full time may make it possible for you to finance more education, but you won’t have the time or energy to do both, work and study.

5. You don’t like having  too much responsibility at the work place. (Being a nurse would have been too much responsibility, being responsible for human life).

6. You don’t like working where you do, particularly customer service during busy times.

7. If you were able to go back to school, you have no  idea what it is you would choose to study.

Be back in about fifteen hours.

anita