Dear seeker:

More than three years ago you wrote: “All my life, I have been teased and made fun of”, referring to your height of 5’3”. It is scary, the thought of being made fun of one more time, to  be rejected one more  time.

Some men are scared of  being  rejected for being  too tall, too intimidating looking. There  is hardly a person who is satisfied with their looks. Even movie stars admired by many millions  for their looks, maybe they, especially, more than  other people, get distressed as they age and  lose their youthful beauty.

Probably all the  women who rejected you, reject a part or parts of their own looks.

You wrote in your recent post that you are scared. I understand. I am scared too. We are all scared. It just looks like others are not scared,  when  they smile and look so carefree, but it is not true-

we are all scared.

Remember that when you are  out and about, seeing  other people, women- they are  scared too. Knowing this, seeing  this, may give you that bit of courage to finally have the  relationship you always wanted.

anita