Hi Eli,

He has other mistresses besides you. Don’t kid yourself.

Even if you got your wish and he leaves his wife and marries you, all that means is that YOU will be the one who gets cheated on.

My advice? Tell him it’s over sexually. For one thing, you don’t want to catch a disease from the other mistresses (don’t kid yourself). Second, he has to prove his love for you. If sex is off the table, if he TRULY loved you, that would be the kick in the pants he needs to leave his wife. But he won’t do that, because he’ll just find other mistresses. (He already has. Don’t kid yourself.)

So you can’t compete with his wife (who can?) or random mistresses (some he hasn’t even met yet).

I think it would be far easier for you to meet single wealthy guys than put up with this guy. Who does he think he is?

Best,

Inky