Eli – just out of curiosity, how old are you?
If you are looking for a person to form a respectful relationship with, then I wouldn’t suggest having sex with them until you are sure you can trust them and that they are committed to you. This will probably take more than one or two dates.
Finding the right person will take time. They won’t be a married man.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 