Dear Ali:

How can you take care of yourself, get the therapy  you need, save money and make a life for yourself when your resources get  depleted repeatedly paying for your father’s care. Lots of people  in the US get bankrupted because of medical bills and  not having  insurance  at all, or having one that is inadequate. I am in such danger myself, having  a very  inadequate  health insurance. But I don’t have a parent or parents who are my  financial responsibility and that  helps. I mean, if I  had a sick  parent without insurance who has already  cost me all my savings and  more, and that parent is still sick and still doesn’t have insurance, how will I ever make  it?

That  is what I ask myself.

anita