Dear Cali Chica:

Happy holiday season/ New Years, I remember New Year in NYC years ago, amazing.

Good to read from you, glad you are back. Your relationship with your sister makes me think of my relationship with my sister. I hardly talk with her because there is  nothing I can do for her and there is nothing  she can do for me. I used  to be very invested  in her, but all of my efforts brought no positive results, none whatsoever. The  more  healing  I experience, the more I see that really, there is nothing I can help her with.

See, when I was  unwell I believed that I had  the ability to help her. Experiencing more well being currently than I ever did, I now believe that I don’t have such an ability, not at all, none.

I suppose you believe that you do have such an ability.. I have the advantage of having  communicated with your sister at length, no longer do, not for the  longest time, but I have communicated with  her.

I wonder if there is  anything I can help you with, in regard to your disturbing-to-you relationship with her…?

anita