Dear Lala:

You wrote in your post before last: “I will ignore/ not respond to rude  comments and focus on my work if I ever come across someone like him”.

I noticed that you responded empathetically and kindly to two members  who responded to your thread and  ignored me and another member, and I wonder if you did so intentionally and  if so, if you did it  because you thought my post to you was rude?

If so, it may be a learning opportunity for the two of us. Or  not.

anita