Hi ImJWL,

I wouldn’t date anyone until I was divorced, myself.

But if you are going to date, please tell the guys that you are still married. Some people are actually looking for a real relationship, and would feel used if they found out (later) that they slept with a “technically still married” person. I myself would be furious if I slept with someone and then found out that he was still married. Even if he assured me again and again that they are separated, I’d be all, “Really, buddy? Why should I believe you? Why didn’t you just say that before? What else are you hiding?”

Best,

Inky