Dear Anita,

Yes, I am new to online dating even if when I did it almost for the whole last year. I found it a good way to meet people, because in real life I just feel unable to get to know people at first, maybe I am just too shy, but online I feel safer to make contact by text before moving to real life communication.

However I think all the disappearing thing is just to much for me to handle. I would prefer to be rejected even by text, but not by disappearing, because even if rejection hurts It would not leave me with a lot of questions and making me feel like a complete failure.

Kay