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Dear Lily:
My leg is a little bit better, but better still. This is the third day that I don’t take my daily walk outside and I do not work either, not doing my normal routine. Yet I can’t just sit, reclined all day long, so I limp around doing little things. And it feels like I will not be doing my routine for a while, I do hope that I will be walking this weekend.
No, not a problem for me that you asked that I don’t refer to you in the 3rd person. How would I know that it offends you unless you tell me? No way for me to know. Now I know and will accommodate your very reasonable request.
Reads like your father and grandmother, from the information in your most recent post and from before, are just not good for your mental well being. Better spend less and less… and yet less time with either one.
I don’t know why your father favored your sister and took her side. It wasn’t right for him to do that. He should have been guided by principles (as a religious leader, especially!) and a principle for a good parent to follow is to take the side of justice in any conflict, not the side of a particular child regardless of the what is just. And then, teach both children why he chose this side, so that life … makes sense to the children, instead of being confusing.
Well, will be away from the computer next and back in about 14 hours.
anita