Hi Logan,

Well, his past ghosting speaks for itself. If he ghosts again, you won’t be surprised.

But honestly? His mother is on life support. He is under a phenomenal amount of emotional stress right now, even if he doesn’t know it and even if he were the most well adjusted person in the world.

I faded away from my friends when my father was dying. Some took it personally. Because I didn’t let them in. Some because of the guilt they felt when they realized that they didn’t even know my father was dying, highlighting that they were crappy friends to begin with because they never reached out during that time (not your situation!).

What I would do is leave him alone and let him reach out. Send an occasional text so he knows he’s not forgotten.

Best,

Inky