Support as in be a base of strength for her. When we were together I was looking for jobs and going to the gym, that was it. By the time she met me after her exams, I hadn’t made any progress in the job hunt and I was still overweight. I think she gave up on us as a couple at that point.

Although I haven’t got a career sorted, she knows I’m trying hard and have plans for joining the armed forces if a graduate scheme doesn’t come off. So I want her to see I still care, I’m building to something and want to do it with her.