Thank you again, Anita.  I noticed some anger building yesterday.  Resentment too.  We are supposed to go out of town together to go explore this weekend and I am fearful this will follow me there.  I don’t want to ruin the weekend getaway.  I just want to be desired.  I hate that I feel whiney and neglected, like a child.  He knows this is hurting me, and I feel like he doesn’t even care.  I am making this all about me, I know, but I am frustrated.  I am feeling the need to detach from him, which makes me nervous.  I have that feeling that I need to just run before I am hurting too much.  Any tips for focusing on myself and allowing him to have his process?