Hi Bella,

Either you grew and he didn’t or… he’s regressing. You didn’t plan for a child. He could be acting out.

Like, “Well, if I’m going to have the responsibilities of a 30 year old, I may as well enjoy myself like a teenager!”

Unfortunately, that looks like he’s stalled in life to most of the world.

I would seriously drop the rope in the relationship. He’s not a bad person, he just doesn’t know how to be a quality person. Instead of arguing with him, I would move out (if living together) and let your relationship with him fade while leaving the door literally open for him to see your child. Tell him that you’d rather enjoy his company than be irritated with him.

And then find a grown up to marry if you decide to.

Best,

Inky