Dear Grayhat:

Before you left to another country, you were in a relationship with your girlfriend “for a couple of months”, corrected to “like for 6-7 months”, corrected yet again for “precisely 6 months”.

Following that there was a long distance relationship in which you mistreated her (you didn’t explain how you mistreated her) and she had a relationship of some sort with another guy. You then told your mother that she cheated on you.

Following that you and your girlfriend are back in the same country for some time now and resumed the relationship, but your mother is against the relationship because of what you told her, that your girlfriend cheated on you.

Your parents never met your girlfriend and don’t  want to meet her because of what you told them about her.

If I understand correctly, your parents want you to end the relationship with your girlfriend because you told them that she cheated on you. It makes your parents unhappy that you are in a relationship with your girlfriend and they want you to make them happy  and that makes them unhappy by you ending your relationship with your girlfriend.

I will be back to the computer in about sixteen hours. If you would like to post again before I return and explain how you mistreated your girlfriend, and more about what you told your mother/ parents about your girlfriend, please do and I will read and reply to you when I am back.

Perhaps other members will reply to you as well.

anita