Dear Howard:

I expected to be able to read your update yesterday but wasn’t able to do so.

I suppose by this point you already had the conversation with your wife. You wrote yesterday: “I anticipate her being angry, frustrated, probably going to push all the ‘just can’t be the man and hold it together and BE what you need to be’ buttons.. she’ll still be angry because she’s afraid and tired of having to patch over my financial issues”

Did she respond like you expected her to respond (the quote above)?

Another question: what does she do to…(I am using same quote) to be the woman and hold it together and BE what she needs to be?

anita