Dear Cali Chica:

Yes, you must prepare. No benefit in accommodating her delusions, her distorted thinking. Better stick to correct thinking, that which fits reality. Let’s say she is in a crisis tomorrow and you feel severely distressed, guilty and what not, take a moment and think of Reality, hold on to it, don’t let go. Have your loyalty be to reality, keep your focus on it.

Flying to AZ to accommodate.. what? That AZ experience was  of no benefit to her.

Paying her rent in NYC to accommodate .. two dogs running around an apt while she is at work, what is the use of doing that.

Better prepare.

anita