Hi Valora,

The therapist/s are still trying to figure out the cause of the anxiety, my husband relates this to seeing his father intimate with another women once and his mother expressing her disinterest in having a normal sex life. He completely seems like a different person those times who is scared like hell just by the thought of having sex.

The therapist’s current diagnosis is that my husband is depressed deeply by something that is blocking him from such pleasures.

Both of us are in our early 30’s but this problem does not seem to have a path/process to get fixed and now feel like time might run out soon if a decision  is not made sooner.