Anita, I cannot fully respond to what you said as I am getting ready at this moment to leave to airport. We have plans the entire time made up. We are having dinner tonight with everyone. We are going to an italian restaurant tomorrow for Valentines and then I was thinking hotel. We are going to a night place for my brothers bday friday and grand canyon saturday. These are things I want to enjoy. But I want personal space and boundaries as well. I appreciate your advice and I wish I would have come to you sooner but at this point so much is set up already. So what can I do? Do you mind if I continue coming to you during my stay? I am going to need some encouragement.