Hi Ana,

One day you may wake up and find your worst fears confirmed: That your boyfriend will leave you. Even though he loves you to bits, sometimes it takes just one thing for the hot water in a relationship to become suddenly boiling.

So before your frog jumps out from the heat, may I suggest NOT living with him.

This way you get the privacy you need now and needed as a child. You get to work out your uncomfortable feelings without a witness or victim. And HE gets to see you for only a few hours at a time when you are fresh and good (a few hours is your limit).

Good Luck!

Inky