Dear Connie:

“Perhaps he felt we were never official so there’s no need to ‘end’ since there was never a ‘beginning?’-

If he really doesn’t answer your text, if he really does disappear, or ghost you like you suspect that he might, that is hurtful and will be hurtful for a while.

It is better, isn’t it, to not be physically intimate with a man too soon, before it is determined and acknowledged by both parties that there has been a beginning. For some people it may be okay to have sexual encounters and feel okay without a continuation, some follow up. But I don’t think it is okay with you. So better make a mental note of this experience and wait next time, wait for an established, solid enough beginning before getting emotionally and physically invested.

anita