Hi sparkle00,

If he gets into a relationship immediately after the breakup you will know that he was just talking out his azz. If, however, his is single for the rest of this year, then know that he just couldn’t take it anymore.

“You can’t get enough of what you don’t want” is a famous Wayne Dyer quote and it is so true.

In your next relationship I want you to Act as If. Act as if you are the most enticing, enchanting person in the world that no young hip tennis player can hold a candle to. Meaning at least keep your mouth shut. Guys are notoriously unskilled at making us feel better.

Best,

Inky