Dear Dahn:

We can look more into why you get scared asserting yourself and asking for help.

As a child, when you witnessed your mother being selfless and giving to others, “noticing how giving and selfless my mother is, to many people including myself”, did you feel sorry for her, seeing how tired she is giving so much?

Did you feel badly for her, wishing she didn’t give so much so that she will have more energy and life in her… and so to help your mother, you decided to not ask her for anything, to not take anything from her so that she will feel better, not so tired?

anita