Yes, exactly like that. And I have explain her that is a wrong thing to do it hence other children are good even though they never study anything, or are hairdressers, or working anyway in anyjob. And those childs including me are enough just like they are. She showed that she understand but in the next minute/moment behave the same as she was before. She is a difficult situation, I thought that I became crazy that I say things that are not correct. She is sitting there and she is just listen when I am talking but her behaviour is totally different.

Elli