Dear lostcloud:

I wrote to you earlier that I don’t need to know what his mother told you when she was alive, when you had conversations with her, but I do: can you tell me what she shared with you?

-what did she tell you about her husband? About Dan? About Dan’s ex girlfriends (with whom she had contact after the relationships were over)? About the concepts of Love, Marriage, Family?

-what about her words/  behaviors led you to believe that Dan was the apple of her eye?

-how did Dan behave around his mother, any physical affection, words of affection, was he respectful toward her?

* I will be back to the computer in about ten hours from now.

anita