Hi Belinda,

I would calm down about this. A lot. View this guy, and any future marriage as Optional. Something nice to have if it falls into your lap, but not something to pursue. You are a very young grandmother now. Your own body is saying you are a very young Wise Woman now.

As a Wise Woman you dollars to donuts already know exactly what to do and what not to do concerning this fellow.

Follow your instincts, follow your innate wisdom.

Best,

Inky