Christine,

It sounds like from your response that you know what kind of person he is.

My approach to relationships is that the other person will not change, and if the are willing to change then I will distance myself and *maybe* come back IF they do change.  Otherwise I wish them well and I will continue on to find my better match.

I don’t believe how ardent the other person begs, pleas, promises that they are going to change for US. They have to change for THEMSELVES not me.

Their behavior tells their truth, not their words.

Mark