Dear Nichole:

Well, since you brought up the Narcissist topic, a Narcissist cold heartedly plans his actions so to mentally destroy his victim, employing well thought of psychological strategies over a period of a long time for that purpose.

But if he benefited from the relationship with you (“My ex didn’t get a financial benefit from me but he benefited very much. He was a blind man and I was his trophy woman. I made him look good… I was his guide, I did EVERYTHING for him. I drove him everywhere, I was his woman and caretaker”),

-why did he aim at destroying his significant benefit, plan to destroy it, and then execute his plan over the course of a few years?

anita