Dear Jay:

Yes, you mentioned her husband moving in. The reason I asked how you would know if she changed her behavior was my concern that  you will need to ask her about her activities, have ongoing contact with her, but if the OPG does the investigation (not you), I suppose that would be okay.

I hope you choose an option where you no longer have contact with her beyond the business/legal context. I think option #4 would mean that the past friendly-like or a pretend-friendly communication with her will no longer happen,  once you threaten her and then, it really will be strictly business/ legal between the two of you, correct?

If so, it may be the right option, a direct confrontation with her and ending of all unnecessary communication with her, going the strictly legal route.

anita