Dear gj:

Maybe it is about that “learned helplessness” that I mentioned to you before- this learned helplessness is about believing that no matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, you will not succeed. This belief kills motivation- why try if success will not happen, is the thinking behind the lack of motivation.

If you think this may be the case, will you tell me what happened with all that studying in high school, what was your goal then, what would success has meant to you at the time, that is, if you got excellent grades, what would happen next?

anita