Hello. I checked now and actually he didn’t use the words I said about me cooking, he said “will i get a last wish?”.

Even if he makes rude comments he never means them like that.. maybe that’s the way he related to his parents and they accepted it and maybe even encouraged it by laughing or never get offended and from this he learnt it’s fine to relate like this to others.

I don’t really make rude jokes only if he starts and I usually say something about his nose for example. Other times he says something and I know he may joke but I take it seriously and try to explain to him how it is and he’s like “I was just joking baby, you re so easy to fool”. Sometimes I can’t tell when he’s joking or not and I have to ask because he doesn’t clarify it by himself. Maybe he jokes too much and I’m too serious. I don’t get some of the things he finds funny… for example he finds funny memes (I can’t think of something specific) where the woman is serious and mad/angry and the man doesn’t take her seriously and continue to joke with her and annoy her. That’s not okay.