I guess in response I think she should know but I guess I feel like maybe if I tell her it will make me feel bad about myself as although he has done the deed I will be the one causing the hurt in that moment so I think I will feel responsible.

Also I guess I feel responsible for him which is ridiculous, with all the things going on in the world I worry maybe he is unhappy and he didn’t know how to do the right thing and by telling her it will cause him distress too.

I know how crazy that sounds, I obviously feel a heightened sense of responsibility for other people and I’m quite a sensitive and an empath and feel things quite deeply , I don’t want to end up blaming myself for any fall out.

Yet obviously I have this on my mind still so I need to resolve it some how